Yes, but…
Good objections deserve honest answers.
Common reasons people give for not taking this seriously — answered with evidence, not rhetoric.
01 I've got nothing to hide. +
Privacy protects far more than wrongdoing — it protects the right to form ideas without surveillance, have relationships without monitoring, and control your own narrative. The data assembled about you is also used to predict and influence what you will do next — not just record what you have done. (Solove, 2011)
02 I can just scroll past what I don't like. +
A fraction-of-a-second pause before scrolling still registers as engagement. The system records it. Your feed shifts. Research consistently shows users are wrong about their ability to scroll past without being affected — the harm is cumulative and environmental, not individual posts.
03 I know when I'm being manipulated. +
This is called the third-person effect — one of the most replicated findings in media psychology. People believe they are less susceptible than others. Education and intelligence do not protect against content calibrated for critical thinkers. (Davison, 1983)
04 Social media is just entertainment. +
Entertainment is not neutral when it functions as the primary way most people form political opinions and understand the world. The distinction between entertainment and information collapsed when social media became the primary information channel for most of the world's population.
05 If I don't like it I can always just leave. +
The network effect makes this much harder than it sounds. Leaving WhatsApp or Instagram means losing access to your social network, not just an app. The design also deliberately impairs the exit decision itself through the same mechanisms you are trying to exit. (Zahrai et al., 2022)
06 The algorithm shows me what I want to see. +
The algorithm shows you what keeps you watching — not what you want, but what you respond to. The distinction matters because outrage, fear, and tribal conflict keep people watching longer than content that makes them happy. Your preferences are also shaped by what you have been shown.
07 This is just how technology works. +
Aza Raskin, who invented the infinite scroll, has publicly stated he regrets it. Tristan Harris, former design ethicist at Google, testified before the US Senate that the harms result from design choices, not technology itself. The people who built these features are not arguing that this is inevitable.
08 I'm educated. This doesn't affect me the way it affects others. +
Research shows educated critical thinkers are sometimes more susceptible to specific techniques calibrated for them — conspiracy framing that flatters scepticism, authority attacks, 'follow the money' arguments. Intelligence does not protect against content that confirms existing beliefs. (Bago et al., 2022)
09 Children today are digital natives — they can handle it. +
Fluency is not the same as critical distance. Digital natives are fluent in the interface. They are not immune to the engagement algorithm. MI5 data shows 1 in 5 terrorism arrests in 2024 were under-17s, concentrated in online radicalisation. Fluency does not confer immunity.
10 This sounds like a conspiracy theory. +
No conspiracy is required. The harms are emergent from commercial incentives — multiple actors optimising for their own goals. The primary sources are the platforms' own internal documents, official Senate investigations, and peer-reviewed research. Only incentives.
11 What can I actually do about it? +
Understanding the mechanism is genuinely protective. The Bad News game at getbadnews.com teaches six manipulation techniques in ten minutes — research shows durable resistance results. The OECD documented a five-fold increase in countries implementing age restrictions in 16 months. Structural change is accelerating.
12 This is just a few bad actors — most people and platforms are fine. +
The harm is not produced by bad people. It is produced by an incentive structure. Platforms optimising for engagement, advertisers purchasing behavioural profiles, engineers building the most compelling features — none are individually malicious. The system produces harm emergently. That is what makes it harder to fix than bad actors would be.
13 Isn't moderating any of this just censorship? +
It is the objection that matters most, so it has its own page. The short version: “free speech” is asked to cover two different things — a person speaking, and a system deciding which of millions of messages billions of people see. The principle was built to protect the first. Whoever holds the power to moderate can abuse it, which is a real worry — so the honest question is not whether to sort content (a feed already does) but who decides, by what rules, and whether the decision can be seen and challenged. Two democratic traditions, the American and the European, answer differently — which tells you the line is a choice, not a law of nature.
The point of this page is not to win arguments. It is to make sure the objections have been genuinely heard and honestly answered.